Sunday, 22 July 2012

Studio Gibhli: Kiki's delivery service

Hooray! It's the school holidays...

Yesterday we have been enjoying the first bit of sunshine we've had in a while. The campervan is out and ready for our holidays, we have unpacked it, repacked it and now we just need to add a few extra bits and pieces.

Then we finally had our first barbeque of the season. It took me almost an hour to walk to the local shops with my 2 year old, who decided to bring his new scooter with him, but he cant ride it any faster than 1/4 mile per hour. And then he lay down in the middle of the road, outside the bank and on the walk home.

Then when I finally arrived home, triumphant with my sausages and bread, it took my husband the best part of an hour to get the gas BBQ working and by the time the sausages were cooked, my son was too tired and grumpy to eat them and threw it on the grass. And breathe...

Anyway, this morning we have had a nice relaxing start to the day, with fresh bread and jam from the local deli, strawberries and Kiki's delivery service. I have heard of Studio Ghibli before and my husband is a big fan of Japanese animation, so he bought this for my daughter.

It was just magical. If you've never tried one of his films, I urge you to give it a go!



However, now the relaxing has to stop because there is a distinct waft of poo coming from my son's nappy. See you soon x

Sunday, 15 July 2012

Footsteps on the floor

On Friday, my daughter had her graduation ceremony from her Infants school. I was very lucky and had a seat on the front row.

There were 60 children taking part and they put on a really funny play about how far they had come since Reception class, when they couldn't dress themselves, had accidents on the floor and wanted their Mummies! They reenacted the classes they had enjoyed, and pretended to be in a time machine, going back to the First World War and the Great Fire of London. They did impersonations of their teachers. Some of the children pretended they were doing a boring PE lesson and broke into some fantastic street dancing. And then they sang their hearts out in two beautiful songs about working together and having self-belief. I was absolutely in bits.

Believe

"I can do anything I want
I can climb the highest mountain
I can feel the ocean rolling wild and free
I can be anything at all
I can climb the highest mountain
If I just believe in me"

My daughter has had a really hard year because she lost her Grandad just before Christmas. So for most of her Autumn term, she barely saw her Dad after school as he was at the hospital and her Granny was always sad. Since her Grandad died, life has still been very different and for a while, she lost a lot of confidence and needed a lot of reassurance and cuddles from us and from her Teaching Assistant.

So when I saw her dancing on the stage with such confidence and a smile on her face, singing her little heart out into the microphone, I thought my heart would burst with pride. At the same time, I felt a tinge of sadness that she is coming to the end of the age of innocence and I wonder what life will be like for her in the Juniors and as a teenager.

I work with children with mental health difficulties and I am all too aware of the pressures upon young children today, to be thin, to be popular, to be cool. I just pray that she can keep some of that confidence that I saw on stage when times get tough. I hope she can continue to believe in herself and what she can achieve.

I realise that I am an important part of that process too.

On Friday after school, she raced outside and was jumping on the wet trampoline. Then she ran in across the kitchen to grab herself a snack. Part of me was ready to yell at her for leaving soggy footprints across the floor. But after she had gone, I stood with a cup of tea, looking at these tiny feet, realising that they wont be tiny forever and they wont be in this house forever. I am determined to cherish every day I spend with my children, try not to nag and and allow her to be confident and free.


Monday, 9 July 2012

Festival fancy dress

Last weekend was pretty miserable in lots of ways. The rain continued to pour down. My son had a speech and language therapy assessment and I was told that his speech was delayed and he needed additional support. And something strange happened to my foot...I was in so much pain I spent much of Saturday morning in the local A&E department, getting it x-rayed. Turns out I have an extra piece of bone sticking out of the side that shouldnt be there, very strange. The nurse and doctors said they had never seen it before and need a second opinion. In the meantime, I have been told to rest, elevate it and put ice on it FOR A WEEK! Ha ha! That is not going to happen is it, with two small kids to look after?

So part of me is worrying a bit now, that I wont be able to go to the festival at all. The other half of me is determined not to worry too much and carry on with my preparations.

So over the weekend, I have been finalising my fancy dress outfits ready for the Silly Olympics theme at Camp Bestival.

Mr S will be wearing a 70s England tracksuit top, with a bad curly wig, lots of fake plastic medals from the local kids farm and a cycling proficiency badge...


My daughter decided she wanted to be an "Olympic Princess". After lots of thought, she decided she wants to be Princess Peach. I have been working on her costume for the past few weeks and I'm pretty chuffed with it actually! It has cost me nothing as it is made out of an old pillowcase, a cut up batgirl costume, some felt and a few fake jewels which we stole off my Mother's Day card. Last weekend I ingeniously made her crown out of a pringles box which we sprayed gold, covered in the above jewels and glued it onto a headband. Blue Peter eat your heart out...


Today I was supposed to making a Mario costume and was about to start sewing a hat, when I realised that he will probably rip the hat off after 5 minutes and then he will just be a toddler in a red t-shirt and dungarees. So I have just won this rather tasteful Superman muscle suit off ebay! I'm sure I will be able to take lots of embarrassing photos that I can use to bribe him when he is a teenager. And if he runs off, hopefully I will be able to spot him.


And I have decided that I really dont want to do the Silly Olympic theme, so I am going to embrace the evening disco look instead, in a 1970s rainbow maxi dress, silly sunglasses and afro wig. I saw the dress in a charity shop window and it was so bonkers, I knew it had to be mine. And it fits perfectly!



So we are certainly not going to look tasteful, but we will definitely be dressed to boogie!

Hey Mrs M, if you're reading this, what are you wearing?

Monday, 2 July 2012

Monday musings

I've been a bit naughty and not been blogging for a couple of weeks, but hey. Sometimes life gets in the way!

I have busy sanding and restoring my ebay habitat table, which has been very satisfying. In a former life, it had lived in a hairdresser's salon, and was looking pretty grubby when it arrived. However, it's amazing what you can do with some sandpaper and a tin of wax. I just need to get the seats covered and an oilcloth and it will be perfect.

Here's the arms of the chairs, before and after sanding (sanded one on the left!).



The main reason why I wanted a bigger table than my ikea £25 out of the paper one was that when we have friends around, it feels like there was never enough space for all the kids to sit down! The radius table is great because it has benches, so you can squeeze 4 little ones on. My table has only got 1 bench so far, so I shall be scouring ebay for another when J doesnt need his highchair any more.

Anyway, yesterday I was supposed to be going to see the Stone Roses, but the logistics of finding someone who could babysit overnight and take my daughter to school with a 2 year old in tow were too tricky. So in order to christen the new table, I invited a couple of friends over and their 4 children, cooked a big Sunday roast and demolished rather a lot of wine with them, whilst the kids created havoc. I set up a cinema in the front room with a studio ghibli film on, with airbeds, cushions and my massive granny blanket. Out in the garden, the kids made "stone babies"- that's a stone with a face drawn on in felt tips and threw balloons filled with water. And unbeknown to me, my bedroom was turned into a makeshift soft play with cushions and an old mattress from my daughter's toddler bed. And the biscuit tin was mysteriously empty this morning. We had a lovely day and I was only a tiny bit hungover during the school run this morning. oops.

 I love when you buy a new piece of furniture and it just works. I dont know how I lived without it now.

 Table: Habitat radius via ebay. Sargeant Pepper pepperpot from Sainsbury's, boxes of duplo/ craft stuff/ sylvanian families ice cream, hamsters, model's own!

In case you were wondering, i have two hamster cages because my daughter's hamsters started fighting like crazy and had to be separated. If you buy hamsters from the pet shop and they advise you to buy two, ignore them!

Actually, when they are not fighting each other, they are quite cute. Here is Jack, who lives in the girly pink cage...




Sunday, 17 June 2012

Family friendly festivals Part 2: Food and drink (non-alcoholic)

This is a tricky one, as most festivals have so much gorgeous food, you could eat at a different stall for every meal and never get through them all. My very favourites are Pieminister, which do the most beautiful pie and mash and the Goan fish curry stall-heaven! I also loved the W.I. tea and cake stall at Camp Bestival last year.

However, this can firstly end up very expensive and secondly, if the food is too exotic it's not always easy finding something that little ones will eat. The main things that were successful with the children last year (then aged 1 and 6) were

Pizza Express Margherita and doughballs
Baked potato with beans and cheese
Sandwiches and cake from the W.I. stall
Sausage in a roll from a post sausage company
My 6 year old also tried the noodles and the pie with mash, but was a big uncertain.

So not really an amazingly varied diet, but enough to survive on for a few days. Our strategy was to take them to a Little Chef for a big breakfast on the first day- this was a posh Heston one with birdsong in the loos, woohoo! This sorted out one cooked meal and then I also try and cook a meal and freeze it, which means it is ready for reheating the next day. Chilli is easy as it can be served with wraps, curry with naan bread, rattatouille with crusty bread. Basically you want to try and cook with one pot wherever possible.

Some years we have the campervan, which gives us more options for food storage, but we dont have electric hook up or gas, so the principle is the same if you are camping, which we will be doing this year.

In your coolbox, freeze as much as you can and this will act as an icepack for your fresh items and obviously lasts a bit longer until it needs to be thrown away. So take frozen bottles of water,milk, frozen bottles of cocktails, frozen sausages, bacon, bread etc etc.

For my youngest, I try and take a high protein breakfast cereal, such as plum porridge, which i think has quinoa in it. Top with fruit puree, which is available from the baby section.

Take plenty of fruit that is portable and not likely to get bashed in a bag if you are out for the day- apples, nectarines, sultanas etc. Leave the bananas at home! Also plenty of healthy energy releasing snacks, such as flapjacks, rice cakes, bread sticks, cereal bars, so the kids are not just eating sugary stuff all day. You can get long life cartons of smoothies, juice and I find the little bottles of strawberry milkshake are great, as they dont need to be kept in the fridge. It is very easy for the kids and adults to get dehydrated, as you are likely to be doing lots of walking/ chasing toddlers/ dancing/ sitting in the sun (ha ha- fat chance!), so I find that taking a couple of bottles of concentrated squash and refillable drinks bottles is useful. You can also buy fruit and veg juice (desperately trying to find a way to get some veggies into the kids) and a big box of cherry tomatoes is good to munch on.

Wraps are lightweight and long lasting, these are good with tuna and sweetcorn.

I know it's not very eco friendly, but I found that I could buy a whole stack of instant coffee/ hot chocolate vending machine cups from places like Home Bargains. If you take a flask of hot water with you, you can save a fortune and keep warm. Take marshmallows for the kids hot chocolate.

You can usually buy staples such as bread, eggs and milk at shops on site and fruit at the farmer's market. But dont forget staples such as butter, oil, tomato ketchup and pot noodles if you are really desperate! Quick cook pasta is also good and could be topped with tuna/ frozen grated cheese/ ratatouille etc.

If your children like them, soya desserts are good as they are high in protein and dont need to be kept in the fridge, same for soya milk which can be used on cereal. You can also buy fruit in jelly which is nice and individuals portions of pineapple in juice were also a hit.




Sunday morning....aaah.

Unexpectedly, my husband and daughter have gone for an exciting day to Alton Towers, leaving me and my little man wondering what to do with our day at 8.30am this morning.

As sad as it sounds, I was quite tempted to go to the Gardener's World Live exhibition, as I was really keen to see their Living Wall exhibit. Have you seen this on the telly, it looks awesome! I love the idea of a whole vertical wall full of cascading plants.

Here are some examples of living walls, in case you've not seen one before...

                                                            Credit: www.freshome.com

                                                                  Credit:agreenliving.org

Apparently they are planning to break up the walls once the show is over and donate them to local schools. I did email to put a word in for our school, as improving the school grounds is our project this year, but alas they had already been allocated. I'm hoping that next year they might remember us though...that would be so cool to have a load of amazing garden designers descend onto our little inner city primary school!


In the end, I decided to go for the slightly calmer option of taking my son to the park to feed the ducks and the baby goslings, a 1 mile game of chase the scuttlebug, head to the park to re-enact Fireman Sam about 20 times, using the slippery pole ,and then finished up at Granny's for tea and biscuits. Perfect!

If you have a little one under the age of 3, I totally recommend Scuttlebugs. They have been far and away my son's favourite toy. He uses it in the house, on the drive, in the park, when camping...he would sleep with it in his cot if I allowed him. I got mine second hand for a tenner, but I think you can buy them at Argos, Tesco, amazon etc.



I did take some sweet photos of my little boy today, but am still unsure about whether to include the children in the blog, partly because they are too little to understand, but also because of my job.

In other news, I am very excited to have bought a Habitat radius table, bench and chairs from ebay for a bargain price. I have wanted one of these sets ever since I moved into this house, but just couldnt afford it- even on ebay they have been going for silly money. Anyway, this one lived in a hairdressers and has had a few knocks and bruises. I dont mind that though, the kids will probably cover it in felt tips/ tomato sauce/ PVA glue/ glitter etc. I am hoping I can sand the top of it and then wondering if I should revarnish the whole thing? I am also going to need to dye the seat covers or upholster them, but I quite like the idea of that anyway.

The only problem is, as soon as I have bought the table, I started looking at some Ercol chairs to go with it. And co-ordinating ercol easy chairs for the lounge area. And some new artwork etc. I have to stop spending, I just cant afford it! I suppose that as I have waited for 5 years for the table, I cant wait a bit longer for the chairs. Ah well.


Monday, 11 June 2012

A tale of soggy bunting and other adventures.

Well, we are back from our camping trip to the Cotswolds. Epic fail. I had hoped to take loads of lovely pictures of my campervan decorated in jubilee bunting, but alas, it rained so much I didn't even get my DSLR out of its' protective bag.

We arrived on Saturday- bit of rain, not too bad.
Sunday- cloudy, bit more rain, still surviving. The kids entertained themselves with lots of bike riding, giggling and saying rude words on the walking talkies. Oh and my toddler did about 1000 circuits of the campsite on his scuttlebug, with me in hot pursuit.
Monday- we had a brief bit of respite and went to the famous South Cerney duck race down the river, where we sponsored a couple of yellow ducks to race against about 1500 others. It was good fun, but sadly we didn't win, think we were up against some pro ducks!


(photo courtesy of Wilts and Gloucestershire Standard)

Tuesday- torrential rain and a pathetic attempt at a jubilee BBQ
Wednesday- torrential rain, sense of humour starting to wear thin.
Thursday- torrential rain and gales forecast for the weekend! Very grumpy and feeling unwell...
Thursday night- hasty retreat down the M5, back to our warm beds, central heating and cups of tea. Phew.

Then on Friday night, my daughter started being sick everywhere (11 times as she told anyone who would listen),
on Saturday, my son started being sick too and on Sunday, I attempted to attack the enormous washing pile, whilst my husband mowed the lawns and attempted to dry out the tent.

And that was our half term and I feel exhausted!

Hope yours was a bit better than mine :)